Those were the exact words scrawled across the pink balloon I brought to J while she was in a hospital bed in New Haven, exactly 21 years ago today. December 8, 1990. My brother had been born. I'm sure they excused my complete disregard for gender comprehension (and my revulsion to anything other than pink, lacy skirts) with, "she's going through a phase." I wonder if my parents still use that when they talk about me...

SMN turns the big 2-1 today, and as I write this, he's drilling out a powerpoint, a paper, and a presentation...the most responsible sibling.
A lot of girls I know aren't lucky enough to have grown up with a brother. While I never had a sister, I wouldn't trade a clean, collaborative closet for a bathroom shared with a pre-pubescent> pubescent>adolescent>teenage boy in a million years. I mean, only if that boy is my brother. If it's not, bring on the shared shoes and swapped tops.

There's no question about it, we wouldn't have survived without each other. And the fact that we've both made it to the 21 milestone speaks volumes of J and M! Only 10 days until I'm homebound, celebrating this birthday properly, sending SMN into his early-twenties with a proper shot of Jose!

Happy Birthday little brother!